Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Perfection and wabi sabi in Pageants



The viral response to Miss Utah, Marissa Powell, flubbing her answer to a question during the Miss Teen USA Pageant personifies the fear that many have about public speaking:  they will be made fun of for being less than perfect.  

NPR’s Linda Holmes says of the question asked that, “…it's basically a test of your ability to generate cow patties on command.”  So Powell’s not a great bull sh*tter.  Given a second chance on the Today Show she answered fine.  

Beauty contest entrants focus on maximizing how they present themselves in many ways.  They are striving for perfection.  Salvador Dali has said, “Have no fear of perfection, you’ll never reach it”.   

Striving to be perfection can achieve excellence, but for another twist in thinking consider the Japanese concept of wabi sabi.  It is about finding beauty in imperfection.  

The viral response, both bullying and accepting, has overshadowed that Erin Brady of Connecticut won the Pageant.  The now notorious Powell did go on to be 3rd Runner Up in the competition.  That’s pretty close to perfection.  She is grandly gorgeous and more beautiful because of her humanity. 

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